Thursday, February 28, 2008

keep receiving complaints about the scholars lately

was why the hod of student welfare called the j2 scholars yesterday.
yeah a lot of complaints especially from around the dunman high hostel.
1. something like girls wearing too short shorts,,dun think she's even in my batch,,but is she even frm tj? i dunno

2. something like j2 scholars not behaving well in the hostel,twd the hostel managers,,i thk dodo's comment abt this matter in his blog is a good one :p.

3. something like tj scholars are very noisy in the morning (when walking to the bus stop? surely we passed the hdb are but...),, well we always pass by the hdb area on the way to the bus stop every morning since last year,and they never complained until only recently? so cannot really be the j2s what?? i think it's the new batch of secondary or jc students...that'll make more sense..

4. something like we're blocking ppl's way when we walk to the bus stop in the moring. comment: stupid complaint. anw,we always rush to the bus stop, so we can't be blocking ppl's way even if some of us are walking together in a group. if what they mean is that the bus stop is blocked by us. again my comment is: stupid complaint. well, we are a large grp here and we're using a public facility.around 50 tjc crowd the 2 consecutive bustops what can be done? we need to go to school. or maybe next time all of us can just stand in one long line to make way for ppl to walk pass. they can always say "excuse me,can u move aside pls" or sth like that. they hav mouth to complain but not mouth to ask ppl politely,end of problem.

5. okay, then something like my last post.

do u hav anything else to complain about us?
and btw ah,,do my last 2 posts sound like i'm having some attitude problem here? i really apologise if u think so,,gatha is just sharing some of her thoughts and experiences :p

an incident that got me wondering...

actually it all started a few weeks ago when my boyfriend was walking me back to the hostel...we walked quite slowly ma,then i saw my teacher mentor walking past us,,i instinctively greeted her. She din notice that it was me who was walking in front of her,,and she looked kinda surprised,greeted me back and continue walking briskly back to the hostel.
Now before i proceed (whoa this sounds like what lol), i wanna ask u this question:
Do u consider a couple walking side by side with the guy's arm around the girl's shoulders as TOO intimate???
Seriously,i think it's perfectly very extremely normal.And seriously i think i was kinda stupid to greet my mentor in that kind of condition.But can't be helped ma,i'm just simply a polite girl lol.
Yea,so some nights after that,she came to my room and said that she wanted to talk to me. i was completely clueless and was really wondering what it was about.
She began with asking if i knew chinese cos she's not really fluent in her english. i said i was ok,just talk and i'd tell her if i din got what she was saying. yea,my chinese was bad,but i could get the gist of what she was saying. it's about the other night's incident la! saying that she thought that we were behaving kinda too intimately,she was surprised,she asked some sincere qns,,,i really had forgotten the details but it's around there. but i nodded in understanding and ensured her that i knew the limits (of course la!!) and everything was fine since i knw tht she was really sincere. yea so i thought it had ended there.............

.....but again, yesterday our hod of student welfare calld all the j2 scholars for a brief meeting cos she got things to tell us (details in the next post).
yea so the last thing she mentiond was that she had got a call frm 'some' mentor that 'some' scholars had been behaving kinda intimately in public etc etc etc... (in my head: what the...haha,still at that??) She said that it is normal that at this time of age we fall in love and form a relationship yadda yadda yadda. But she said this too: yes it's ok to hav a bf or gf,but please,,hands off la! Hands off ah? whoa,,cannot hold hands cannot hug. why are they making such a big fuss over some normal things? i know it's their business to mind our business,but...
dunno lah. it's not like we kiss in open public and there's petting involved and we have sex somewhere,,whoa can't even imagine myself doing things that outrageous. chill teachers! i never did those kinda things!! and we live in 21st century! and i thought u're used to seeing couples walk so close in orchard rd,inside mrt,wherever it is in singapore!! and i din even (more like it's impossible to) walk arms over shoulders in school!!

seriously,,well anw i'm not pissed off,,i just find it kinda ridiculous that's all.and when the hod mentiond the gilr-guy thing, me and my friends almost laughed and smiled bcos we know that she was reffering to my incident lol. yeah..anyway...what a long blog haha...

...and inka never got caught doing the same thing as me. aiya,i think i must'v been really noob la :(

Monday, February 11, 2008

*coff**coff*

I'm coughing...
I had planned to go to the doctor after the last lesson of the day,then come back to school for choir. In the end i only went to the doctor with cei,and then went straight home to sleep cos my coughing got worse and my head felt heavier...sad but at least i got an hour of sleep and a more slacking afternoon-evening ;p.
Everyone's falling sick (at least my indon batch),,what is this eh??
Can't sing...sad leh...i'd be coughing my "yassa mossa" all along if i had gone for choir today....
yassa *coff* yassa mossa *coff* yassa mossa socha *coff**coff* aiyoh.....

Saturday, February 9, 2008

(almost) fell sick...

hopefully i won't catch flu or something...izzit bcos of all the junkfood (mc donald's,kfc....) we ate throughout cny hols?? xian sia, most stores were closed,hostel also din provide food...no choice lor, ate all those junk food.
Gatha is struggling not to fall sick haha.

Wednesday, February 6, 2008

i'm so sorry,,you'll see more of my flaws but just bear with me k? am i asking too much? i know that sometimes i can just blurt out sentences without thinking,,and i can be selfish and fierce and impatient,,maybe u haven't seen much of it yet...i know those are not good for myself either..still trying to better myself. it's not fair,,especially cos you've been so patient and sweet to me,and i've had great times with you,and i'm not tired of going out with you though singapore's so small and we are certainly going to the same places everytime we're going out...and now i'm moving away from the main point already...sweat sia... haha,just laugh at it lol :p...

cny

it's another cny celebration away from home.
no,no, i'm not complaining or what,,been spending my cny holiday in spore for 4 years in a row alr,,and even if i'm in indo, we (my family) dun do anything special anyway,,just the angpaos and yeah...guess that's all. anyway,yeah of course we hav gathering at my grandparents' houses,,but...we visit them often throughout the year already,,and we also constantly gather with our extended family so....again the only difference cny make is just the angpaos lol.

spending the hols in spore....i guess we cannot really go out shopping or wad during cny...(almost) all stores are closed...the prev years of cny in singapore have been..quite dull too haha. even this year,when i have someone to spend the time with..i dun really know where to go....give me some suggestions pls haha. nvm,i think i just found the solution :p//

so anw peeps,,xin nian kuai le hor!! happy lunar new year!!
banzai from me ;p!