actually it all started a few weeks ago when my boyfriend was walking me back to the hostel...we walked quite slowly ma,then i saw my teacher mentor walking past us,,i instinctively greeted her. She din notice that it was me who was walking in front of her,,and she looked kinda surprised,greeted me back and continue walking briskly back to the hostel.
Now before i proceed (whoa this sounds like what lol), i wanna ask u this question:
Do u consider a couple walking side by side with the guy's arm around the girl's shoulders as TOO intimate???
Seriously,i think it's perfectly very extremely normal.And seriously i think i was kinda stupid to greet my mentor in that kind of condition.But can't be helped ma,i'm just simply a polite girl lol.
Yea,so some nights after that,she came to my room and said that she wanted to talk to me. i was completely clueless and was really wondering what it was about.
She began with asking if i knew chinese cos she's not really fluent in her english. i said i was ok,just talk and i'd tell her if i din got what she was saying. yea,my chinese was bad,but i could get the gist of what she was saying. it's about the other night's incident la! saying that she thought that we were behaving kinda too intimately,she was surprised,she asked some sincere qns,,,i really had forgotten the details but it's around there. but i nodded in understanding and ensured her that i knew the limits (of course la!!) and everything was fine since i knw tht she was really sincere. yea so i thought it had ended there.............
.....but again, yesterday our hod of student welfare calld all the j2 scholars for a brief meeting cos she got things to tell us (details in the next post).
yea so the last thing she mentiond was that she had got a call frm 'some' mentor that 'some' scholars had been behaving kinda intimately in public etc etc etc... (in my head: what the...haha,still at that??) She said that it is normal that at this time of age we fall in love and form a relationship yadda yadda yadda. But she said this too: yes it's ok to hav a bf or gf,but please,,hands off la! Hands off ah? whoa,,cannot hold hands cannot hug. why are they making such a big fuss over some normal things? i know it's their business to mind our business,but...
dunno lah. it's not like we kiss in open public and there's petting involved and we have sex somewhere,,whoa can't even imagine myself doing things that outrageous. chill teachers! i never did those kinda things!! and we live in 21st century! and i thought u're used to seeing couples walk so close in orchard rd,inside mrt,wherever it is in singapore!! and i din even (more like it's impossible to) walk arms over shoulders in school!!
seriously,,well anw i'm not pissed off,,i just find it kinda ridiculous that's all.and when the hod mentiond the gilr-guy thing, me and my friends almost laughed and smiled bcos we know that she was reffering to my incident lol. yeah..anyway...what a long blog haha...
...and inka never got caught doing the same thing as me. aiya,i think i must'v been really noob la :(
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